Tragedy like that does all sorts of things to people. I can't even imagine what it would be like. One thing is certain: faith makes an enormous difference in trying times. Today the Petit family issued a statement. It begins:
We are a family of faith. No one ever wants their faith tested, particularly by events such as these. When there is no ability to control your life events and you are required to deal with such great tragedy and loss, however, your faith is all the more necessary.Then the statement enters really extraordinary territory. Demonstrating a magnanimous nature rarely found in our culture, the family says this:
Although we will no longer have Jennifer, Hayley and Michaela physically present with us, and we do now and we will continue to experience an extraordinary sense of loss because of that, we firmly believe that their spirits and all of the goodness that defined their characters and beautiful personas will remain with us forever. We are committed to preserving those spirits and fulfilling their lives of promise, so tragically cut short.
Many ask what they can do.The sense of generosity and compassion they manifest in this challenging time is inspiring. Imagine if our world were like that -- seeking compassion and not revenge, mercy and not justice. I'm sure the Petit family must at times wish horrible things upon their attackers (that's human nature), but their deeper, public wishes are something we should all notice.Care about others as a regular part of your lives, not just at times of tragedy. The feelings of connectedness and the outpouring of affection for us and our family members represent the best of human emotions, for which we are extremely grateful.
Actively support causes that exist solely for the improvement of people's lives in need.
Doing these things will be our way of saying that these senseless acts of violence did not stop the wonderful, giving spirits of our beloved family members.
As we live in times that are increasingly shrill, filled with calls for revenge, justice, and fear, we need to take notice of rare moments of boundless love when it shines forth.


